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WHAT THEY’RE COMING FOR NEXT

It’s now been four years since the six Republican toadies on the Supreme Court overturned Roe v. Wade and ended safe legal abortion in a large swath of the United States.

It’s now been only a couple of weeks since those same six dolts eviscerated 60 years of progress in giving representation to Black people over pretty much the same territory.

Both of these rollbacks of justice were entirely predictable. They have been the goals of the folks pandering to white nationalism and evangelical excess. The people with privilege who say legislation should not help people of color who don’t share their privilege. The people who wail about freedom of religion because stores say “Happy Holidays!” but insist that everyone abide by their fundamentalist beliefs.

They will tell you they reaped their reward for putting their faith in God. What they did was reap their reward for putting their faith in Donald Trump.

The Preamble to our Constitution says we’re trying to form a more perfect union, establish justice and ensure domestic tranquility. That’s not what these folks want. They want the status quo – the great that they want America to be again – not from the recent past, but from the early 1800s.

They’ve been playing a long game ever since the first sprouts of progress in civil rights. Americans usually only vote every four years – for president. They can’t be bothered with votes on school boards, community boards, town councils, village trustees, lower court justices, highway superintendents. Then state legislatures and Congress.

Those are the elections on which they focused their attention. Once they had control, they shaped their constituencies to their benefit. AKA gerrymandering. 

That’s the mess we’re in now.

And if you think they’re done, if you think they’re content with blocking abortions and making sure cities with mostly non-white populations have no representation, you’re nuts.

The coalition of unbridled corporate greed and America-is-a-Christian-nationites has targets on several other things that have improved life in our countries in my 72 years. The kinds of things that other developed nations – Britain, France, Canada, et cetera – take for granted.

They are, in no particular order:

— Same-sex marriage: Other people’s happiness matters not a whit to these people. They’ve been trying to tee up the Obergefell decision since Anthony Kennedy wrote his brilliant opinion in 2015. 

They have the votes to overturn it. Chief Justice John Roberts didn’t like the decision when it came out. You know Alito and Thomas are chomping at the bit to eviscerate it. And Trump’s Three Stooges will do whatever the right wing that got them their robes asks.

Sane-sex marriages are marriages. Two people fall in love, commit their lives to one another, and are happy. That is all that matters. And that happiness is not to be judged by anyone else.

But, unchecked, the my-way-or-the-highway clowns will try to undo that happiness, no matter how much it hurts people and the legal mess it would create after 11 years.

— Interracial marriage: It’s probably hard for most young people to believe – in a world of Mariah Carey, Derek Jeter, The Rock and Barack Obama. But in much of this country, interracial marriage was proscribed until the early 1960s, when the Supreme Court ruled in Loving v. Virginia.

There are few things that stick in the craw of white supremacists as much as seeing black-and-white, Asian-and-white, indigenous-and=white and other racially mixed couples. Watching them walking hand-in-hand or, gasp, getting pulled by their two kids through Disneyland.

The term “racial purity” makes me want to throw up. But that’s what these people seek. If there’s a way to overturn it, they’ll try to find it – even if it means that Clarence Thomas will have to find an exception to allow him to keep his white wife.

— Birth control: Again, it would hard for young people to grasp that the idea of limiting procreation through drugs and medical devices is not a given. It was the Griswold v. Connecticut case in 1965 that permitted married couples to use contraception, and the Eisenstadt v. Baird (In this one, Baird is the good guy) case that extended that to unmarried couples.

In this administration, you’ve just heard the idiot known as Dr. Oz spew the idea that Americans are “underbabied.”  You’ve heard the nut case known as Robert F. Kennedy Jr. bemoan what he says is a deficiency in teen sperm counts. 

These people want more children – actually, they want more white children. It would be a counterbalance to the fact that the U.S. is on track to become a majority-minority nation (Horrors!). 

— Family and childbirth leave: Since the mid-1990s, you’ve been able to take time off from work to care for a newborn or a sick family member. 

At first, it was mostly unpaid. But then companies looking for a competitive hiring advantage decided to start offering that leave as a paid benefit.

They hate doing that. It cuts into profits, no matter how obscene they are. Trump’s corporate enablers are looking for ways to end the Medical and Family Leave Act.

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Well, just don’t sit there. Do something.

First off, make sure you’re registered to vote. Right now. Don’t wait to check on it in the fall.

Because there are voting opportunities even before November. 

Here where I live, there’s a school board election next week. Voting in those elections is just as important as voting for Congress. If you want to stop the crazies in your area from book bans and enabling Turning Point USA propaganda, make sure they’re not in positions that allow them to use your tax dollars to support them.

There are also primaries. Pick the candidate who best represents your position on these matters. But make sure you vote – the bad guys have gotten where they are because of our complacency. That’s got to end.

That’s especially true in the way this country treats its Black citizens. These folks work as hard as everyone else. They pay their fair share in taxes – more than you can say about the billionaires Trump took on his junket to China.

They deserve representation. They deserve a voice. The states that legislated predominantly Black congressional districts out of existence obviously don’t care enough about what fair-minded people think of their actions. 

Don’t go there. There’s no reason to visit Tennessee. New Orleans can wait. You can make toasted ravioli without going to St. Louis. These people who have gerrymandered their states to achieve perfect whiteness don’t serve you to cast your dollar vote for them.

That also applies to businesses in their states. If you see products are made in Tennessee or Louisiana or Missouri, don’t buy them.

It is not enough to gird for the fights that are coming. It’s time to make the white Christian supremacists pay a price for their out-and-out evil.

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MIXED UP

Anyone who thinks winning the lottery is the ultimate success isn’t married to someone they love.

Somehow, I think the odds are longer. There are more than 8 billion people on this planet. Out of them, I found the one. 

There are two reasons I bring this up. 

One is that last week was the 40th anniversary of our engagement. I’d like to say that I did something wonderful for the occasion. But, honestly, I’d forgotten the occasion when I exchanged an unused Met game ticket for the contest that night. So much for being sentimental (for those irate about this, rest assured the Mets lost.)

The other reason is the resurfacing of comments by Indiana Gov. Mike Braun. Three years ago, when he was a senator, he told inquiring reporters that the Supreme Court should leave the matter of interracial marriage to the states. It was taken – I wonder why – as an indication he’s not crazy about the idea. Soon after, he backtracked and said he didn’t understand the question and opposes all forms of racism.

That’s nice.

I suspect this remark resurfaced in light of a lot of Trump-inspired opprobrium about people who aren’t white. WItness the occupation of Washington, D.C., by red-state national guardsmen, the effort to gerrymander non-white representatives out of office and even Trump’s attempt to tell us that slavery got a bad rap that caused that no-big-deal Civil War.

My relationship – hey, my marriage – is interracial. Being different races isn’t the reason we’re married, just as being different races wasn’t a reason not to marry. It’s just that the one in 8 billion people I fell in love with happened to be from the other side of the world.

The side benefits of interracial marriage are amazing. I’ve been exposed to cultural experiences I never would have seen. My kids – who, like every offspring of interracial parents I’ve seen, are gorgeous – can tell the difference between good-and-bad dan tats and cannoli.

If there’s a minus, it’s that other people sometimes seem bothered by it. 

We’ve gotten fisheyes from department store clerks in Florida, cab drivers in Hong Kong, waiters in a Brooklyn restaurant. My kids didn’t tell me until they were grown up how much antipathy they faced in our mostly white suburb. 

On the other hand, we’ve been blessed with total support and pride from both our extended families. 

Obviously, that isn’t always the case.

Interracial marriage wasn’t completely legal in this country until 1967, when the Supreme Court ended so-called “miscegenation” laws via the case of the Lovings of Virginia – a Black woman and white man who married. That ruling voided those laws everywhere, although it took until 2000 – 14 years into our marriage – for the last state to do so.

Most laws against interracial marriage focused on Black and white couples. Especially Black man-white woman couples that caused nightmares for those who combined racism and sexism. But there was also hostility toward all other kinds of combinations – any mix of white, Black, Latino, Asian and Indigenous people (and, of course, any mix of sexual orientation involved, but that’s a topic for another time).

When I was born, less than 5% of Americans supported interracial marriage. Even when the Loving decision came, a majority opposed the idea. Shortly after we married, it turned – more Americans supported interracial marriage than opposed it. ( I don’t think we had anything to do with it, but who knows?)

In the last Gallup survey taken four years ago, 94% of Americans approved an interracial marriage – just about a complete reversal of the percentages from the 1950s. About 1 in 5 American marriages are multiracial.

It’s a wonderful thing to see.

All kinds of combinations sitting in the stands at Citi Field, walking with their families at Disney World, attending a Beyonce concert in Los Angeles, running to a gate at O’Hare.

It also seems to drive some people crazy.

Part of what we’re seeing from Trump and the MAGA creeps is an attempt to reestablish “racial purity.” Whites with whites. Other races with their own, in a diminished stature.

It seems to make them nuts – not that they need much to achieve that – to see multiracial kids and not know whether to treat them as white or whatever other race they are. How can you profile people if they’re not exactly the ones you want to profile?

The fact is interracial marriage is contributing to what makes America truly great – the idea that we are committed to the important principles of love and inclusion. Interracial marriage has given us Barack Obama, Derek Jeter, Alicia Keys and The Rock.

It doesn’t matter if you’re the same race. It doesn’t matter if you’re a mix of two or more races. 

It matters what you bring to the American table, what you contribute to make this a better country, and whether or not the person you love is that one in 8 billion you dream of finding.

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